There are many different tasks that a parent has to face, and of these, to prepare your child for the real world they will face in adulthood. One way is to do this work of construction, domestic work is a good way to give your child's hand experience of what they need from adults.
Motivate your children to do housework, one of the most difficult tasks than ever as a parent, but most children do very well with aand once they have little incentive to make a habit of regular activities. If you assign tasks appropriate to the age of your child, you are teaching them responsibility. However, many parents already know that this is not always well received by the child.
House work can feel like a punishment or can think entertaining and not boring. Therefore, the more we can do to make it fun and creative, the better the chances you and your children. Remember that your childrenwill get better as they get older, they learn from these opportunities, responsibilities and also taught how to do many tasks and duties.
Besides deciding which tasks should play your child, you should choose, for which indemnity or compensation, and that without them the expected'd like to do the bed or brush their teeth.
What a chorus of choice
One of the first things you can know is whatHomework to be obtained. This can be a difficult task for many parents to be and there are several factors going to choose what works best for you. The tasks that you choose for your children a lot from about the age of the child. Children under 2 years are not really mature enough to do no regular work. However, even a child can start warming to the idea if you clean your time or contribute to promote small around the house.
Here is aDistribution of age groups and some ideas for the work they can do at this age. This is not right, and out of each child and their maturity. The lists of duties are not exhaustive, and you can add a little 'to the list of your own thinking.
2 to 5 years:
• Put away toys
• To put dirty clothes away in ahinder
· Grid water blanket
· Sort laundry
Clearing · Serving dishes
Help clothes attract ° clean
· Set with blackboard
· Dust furnitureand whole house
5 to 8/9 years:
· Be bed
· Dust / MOP floors
· Power pets
· Clean up bedrooms
· Clean on vehicles / trash and Clutterwithin
· Removal of garbage collection and
· Vehicles external washing
· Folds function clean clothes
· Put away groceries
· Insert or unload the dishwasher
· Basic services garden chairWork-rake, garbage, etc.
· Clean walls and doors
From 9-13 years:
· VACUUM and mop
· School prepare lunch
• Edit Sheet
· Washing Machine BedLeaves
· Clean bathroom
13 and above:
· Mow the lawn
· Help prepare meals
• To clean the dishes
• To clean the garage
· ILaundry
If the child is older, you find that they are able to do things more and more. The maturity of the child must be considered. Each time a new difficulty in advance with your child, you take the time to really go over the instructions with them. Give them the opportunity to ask questions and make the first few times you do something for the monitoring.
accept not only the child knows how you see it from doing so. This is how accidentsto get homework done or not completed correctly. There is also a good opportunity to tie, how to do something together and spend time together.
Many parents want to enjoy a list of possible activities for each child and their age and then to take the child what to do this week. If the child has three tasks to do every day, you can pick up their three from the list at the beginning of the week.
Diversity is good for them to learn new things and allowsIt also keeps the tasks of everyday boring. This will focus a good time to give up as many chores for each child.
How much work for every child
Once decided which tasks are appropriate for your child and their age and maturity, we must also consider the number of tasks to be done in one day. Some activities are weekly and others can be made once a day so that there are three daily and weekly work routines, etc. You just need to figure out what works for you and canYour child.
2 to 5 years: two to three working days is all you can manage your child at this age. Take account of their maturity, but not try to put them in little worker bees. This is a learning curve and it continues to do a lot of work itself, this is the time when many children get more excited to do homework and help. You may find that your child to do things, asking a few things that do not really old enoughbut still. Allow them to help whenever you can.
8.5 / 9 years: In this age, you can check the chore list up to four fifty-seven homework or something, if your child seems mature enough to handle the responsibility. You may also want to help your child suggest you leave the task for them to do, but you will also find that some children think they can do more than you can really at that age. Do not let them get ahead. Show them how to engage with the tasks they have and then docorrect.
9-13 years: now you can easily list up to six fifty-five chore duties. Many children at this age begin to do their homework at the end. You can get moans and groans, even if they begin to talk about it. This is when it is important to teach your child to go and do it, even if they do not want this. This is one of the most important things for accountability.
13 and Up: children of this age can usually handle about 70-10 cardsBut keep in mind if you have other tasks, such as clubs or sports teams. You can earn additional duties voluntarily contribute additional funds for things they want, or saving for.
Remember also that some activities on a daily basis and some on a weekly basis, so that they also affect the number of domestic work and to give them more or less.
As a reward for the work
The next thing you might have more questions, is the way to reward your child for homework. Parents have many different takesin this area. Some parents give money as compensation, other prices or offer coupons for some prizes and give nothing to believe in their children for their missions.
If it is true that there are probably some activities to get your child should do for themselves, without compensation, as the acquisition itself, or perhaps makes his bed. However, positive reinforcement go a long way.
If you start talking about other matters, really helps to prepareto face the real world have to do these tasks and responsibilities so it only makes sense that there is a compensation for them.
If you can not afford to give your child a financial compensation for the amount of physical "prizes" as a reward, you can use your reward bit 'of time the family together. In fact, I highly recommend this correctly as a reward for the restoration of it anyway. Perhaps you have a good night's game at home, play a board game together. You can choose to watch movies and make popcorn orhave a day of crafts. Whatever you do, can only be something special to do together, and tell your child that because they helped with the housework, you now have more free time to spend with them.
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